Lucy and Ethel were the best of friends. Silly, frustrated but always loving to each other, crazy pants wetting adventures that summed up the reason why we have friends. I am thinking about friends at the moment as there seems to be alot of activity in this area of my life. I have old friends coming back into my life, other friends moving away from me, dreams about friends and I have made some new ones whom I have big crushes on. This is all interesting as because most of the time I feel like a social pariah due to my Taurean nature and general pain in the arse attitude. I have been making more of an effort though, initiating invitations and contact which is also unusual for me.
I can attribute this change in my social life to a few things:
• Venus is in my chart at the moment which makes me all squishy inside.
• Feeling calmer about my life at the moment and not as overworked as I ususally am.
• Being kinder to myself and thus an attitude change.
Sometimes we can feel so alone even though we are not, I think the lesson is that we cannot force other to love us, we only let ourselves be loved. Loving yourself is the first step. I hate that phase "loving yourself"its annoys me in a super new agey way, but I cannot think of a better way to say it. Loving yourself does not mean through thinking you are better, or more superior, its just about being kind to yourself and vibrating at a lovely level so people want to be around you.
The only way to have a friend is to be one.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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