Thursday, May 11, 2006

Its not about you, its is you!

Interesting when comments are thrown at you, supposedly in your own interest but really trying to have a go and hurt you. What you notice in others that you dislike or find challenging are usually the very things you dislike about yourself or fear.
It is hard though, when you have been conditioned your whole life to take heed of what others are saying, to rise above their barbs and not let them touch you. Take lots of practise.
Get into the observer position and watch yourself.
If you are truly in that place then praise or judgement will not touch you.
Raise the shield my friend.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

you are gorgeous
love you all the time
x

Kate Forster said...

yes, I know and so are you dear one!